Tuesday, December 29, 2009

And Now We Set The Record Straight


Opinions are written on here from readers and not everyone likes them. We try to stay neutral in every way when it comes to the families. We have been pulled into some uncomfortable situations. We have been lied to, several times, by family members. We have had to deal with inter family turmoil. One family got mad because Kim hunt ghosts and that is, according to them, evil. Despite the fact that she goes out there every weekend, and most week days fighting for justice for their family member. We do not get paid for what we do. If it weren't for our wonderful husbands who actually help us out a lot financially, we would not be able to do half of what we do.
We have learned things about some of the victims that isn't pretty, yet we defend them because they are victims of MURDER. They were stolen from their families, who loved them. We are sorry you do not always like what is written on this blog. It paints an ugly picture sometimes. But that is what the picture looks like and we can not change that. What you call crap, may still be the truth. We have no way of knowing. If you don't like it, don't read this blog.
As for Dalton's family, we take no sides but his. His family hurts. That is his parent's family and his step father's family. Do you think they like all the things being said about their family member? What if he was your brother or son or your daughter or sister? They are going to defend them, no matter what. We will not turn them away because we are Columbiana County FAMILIES of Homicide Victims. We are here for the families as well as the victims. ALL THE FAMILIES. We do not support Dalton's Mother or Step Father, but we do support their families right to grieve and hurt and their right to justice for Dalton.
Part of what makes CCFHV work is what the public knows or heard or witnessed. It comes out on this blog. It comes out when we go into the public. And like we said, the picture is not always pretty. But it is the picture.
We will not turn our back on any one. While our main priority is Dalton and all the other victims, we are here for the FAMILIES AS WELL. If you do not like that, go read some one elses blog. Maybe they will lie and tell you what you want to hear. But we are about JUSTICE FOR ALL OUR VICTIMS and a helping hand to any family member that needs us.

2 comments:

Tiffini ( Dalton's mom) said...

Belinda,
I don't know what was said for you to post what you have... I honestly don'tcare... I know that you are out there looking and wanting answers for all the murdered or missing people on your list...
As for me I have told you everything that I know of that night and I have never waver from my story wich is the truth and I will stake my life on that....
I have no hard feelings toward you or Kim in what you are doing.. I just wish I would have thought of something along the same lines... But I have not been in the right state of mind in a long time... I am starting to see the whole truth and hopefully others are seeing it also... I was always mad out to be the bad person and it hurt but I have come to not worry about it because the truth about people come out... As it has with J.C. no-one wanted to beleive me that he was an abussive person but as we have all read it is true so everyone can see what type of person he trully is...
I would like to help you out when ever I can.... So please get in touch with me and let me know what you need.. You still have my number I hope if not I will contact you...
Thank you both for everything that you do on a daily bases..
Justice For Dalton Lane Springer!!!!

Belinda Puchajda said...

Tiffini, this post was written because we get so tired of hearing that we are choosing sides for either you or JC on this blog. Emma gets upset and says that we are blaming you and writes attacks against Amy and anyone else in JC's family. The fact is, I do not know who killed Dalton. I was not in the house that night. What I do know is that he is laying still in an unmarked grave still with no permission slip signed so that we can at the very least put his candle on there. I had 2 different appointments with you to meet at McDonald's and you didn't even call and cancel with me, you just didn't show up for them. I care about getting Justice for Dalton and the rest of the "he said-she said" crap doesn't belong on this blog. All I am saying is, none of this bickering helps solve Daltons' murder. Belinda